I have come across an article that explicitly condemns abortionists and those who pratice slaughter of the helpless children. Yet, I am more concerned on the welfare of the woman, as the victim more than the culprit. This article is offered to all of you who are suffering from the problem.
Let us not have a prior judgement rather allow reasons of realities to flow within us. Give time for your mind to think free and be unbounded by rails of pains and failures. Let us talk together of the importance of your decision to the magical life you are carrying. To women who are in deep suffering and untold confusion, why do you have to abort your child? Understand that the child in your womb is a helpless angel. You were supposed to nourish and preserve life, why curtail it?
Can you bear to see your fragmented child after being slaughtered inside your womb without being given the chance to defend himself? Will you not allow him to live and prove his worth? God chose you to be a part of the creation of a human being, why stop it? Are you not appreciative of your gift to create life? You have the ability to have a child of your own while some even don’t have that God-given grace.
Bear in mind always, you are not the only one experiencing such hardships in life. If these troubles drain your being, accept it and you’ll be surprised you are stronger than you think you are. Don’t get too affected with the people around you for they do not know you to the depth that you know yourself. Prove to them you can be brave and steadfast with your decision to love the child in your womb.
If someone forces you to marry for the sake of shame, ask yourself. If you can picture out being with him for the rest of your life, then agree. If you couldn’t, then don’t allow yourself to enter such a dungeon of darkness for it is not like rice that when you’re burned by it, you can spit it out quickly.
Yes, you committed a mistake but don’t right the wrong by committing another mistake. Abortion and forced marriage aren’t the only solutions to your problem. Don’t be a hypocrite. Better be seen as a happy single mother than having an abortion to save your face to the society or worse being a battered wife. It’s true you went astray, you have tumbled and fall but your courageous struggles to stand dignified again would even count more than your errors and much more to give praise to. Remember that in every problem there’s a corresponding solution. The gifts of blessings and happiness you’ll have tomorrow will be more than the sufferings you are encountering today. It will be there for you if you’ll have hope in the future.
You have the right to your own body and for the child but put in your mind that having an abortion is no less than killing your own life. He is a part of you and forever will be . Even if the child is dead, the nightmares won;t allow you to sleep soundly. Remember, regret is always at the end.More so, everything has its purpose that even the falling of a leaf has its own meaning. The child in your womb might be the next hero of this country, or the future president, or even someone you can be proud of in the future, why discontinue it?
Be optimistic, stand firm in your decisions to give your child a chance to live. You have an angel within you. Don’t take his very big chance to see the world nor hinder him to experience the essence of life.
I salute you who stand firm to protect your child from all these dark ingenuities of mankind, you who had been emphatic enough with your child’s feelings. I admire you who followed your conscience despite all the adversities, hindrances and pressures from others, you who didn’t excuse humiliation to slaughter your own angel nor married doubtingly for the child’s sake.
For those who already had aborted their innocent child, forget not that there’s still a chance for you to change that fault. Acknowledge the fact that you committed a mistake and learn from it. Never live yourself by the past rather continue living a life worth changing. Allow such weakness to be your strong foundation to live maturely. Never blame yourself, what happened had happened and you can do nothing about it. But you can still gather the broken pieces of yourself and start building again for there;s a chance as long as you live.
And what if the situation runs vice-versa? You were the child in your mother’s womb. What if she aborted you? Will you get mad at her? Will you accuse her of irresponsibility and negligence? Are you going to hate her for not giving you the chance?
What if that happens? What will you do?
CoMMeNTS