10 WaYS To iMPRoVe LoVe THe FeNG SHUi WaY

  

     So you are still loveless…. you feel that love is leaving you behind… or worse, its running away from you!    Don’t worry,  here are my Top Ten tips from  to improve your current love life. I took the time to research this among the top feng shui masters.

  

Rank 10 -  CORRECT POSITION of the bedroom.       Each of us has our own lucky directions. Use a compass to find your “auspicious area”.    Sleeping in your lucky area will help you improve your “chi”   flow and enhance the ambiance of you room.  It might help your shaky relationship. If you badly need a baby, this might be of a great help.

 Rank 9 – COMFORT is the KEY.     Correct!   Did you know that it is better to use a double size bed than a King size bed? The bed should be just enough for your own space , not too big nor too small for you.   Make sure you use the right colors for your bed sheets as well as room colors.  To enhance the flow of chi, proper ventilation of the room is needed. This means “Unclutter” your cabinet. Appliances, clothes, accessories that are not in need should be given away.   The bigger the space, the better way for the chi to flow.

Rank 8 -  BALANCED CHI – you must enhance and balance the yin (female) and yang (male).   You have to neutralize each other’s colors. Do not use too much of a feminine color (not all pink but also with blue).  Furnitures should have a masculine and a feminine side.  Improving the right attitude and expressing your natural self will help you improve your love life.

RAnk 7 – PEONY FLOWER – don’t you know that placing a peony flower in your living room (SW area) will help you enhance love?   This flower is also called “queen of flowers” and is better than a rose. (Caution:   do not give roses with thorns… it implies pain and scar.)    

            This type of flower is native to Asia, southern Europe and western North America.  It enhances romance and creates an aura of love.  So if you want to invite more suitors and invigiorate your love life, try placing a fresh/printed peony flower in your living room. Who knows who will knock in your front door.      Now if you really can’t find one, you may use “dragon and phoenix symbol or mandarin duck”.  Place these inside your side bedroom cabinet. Crystals enhances for chi to flow better.

Rank 6 – PHOTOS AND IMAGES – it is a good sign for love if your photos or wall decorations are about or related to love.  Avoid pictures depicting death, loneliness or separation.  Improve the ambiance of your house/ bedroom by placing photos or paintings  about love. If you are married, it is advisable to place photos of your wedding or family photos on the wall or in you bedroom.

                If you are loveless, try to hang a painting (love) on the wall jsut before you go inside your room.  Placing it in this area will help you invite love into your life. You may also place pictures on the wall adjacent to foot of your bed.

 

Rank 5 -  PLANTS.     OK so most of you might have this common belief that flowers are nice inside the bedrooms.  No, they are not good especially if you place them in the South West (SW) area.    Any type of  plants, living or non living will not help you improve your love life.  Cactus, roses, bonsai, or any kind of thorny plants for that matter are not encouraged since they invite financial as well as health problems.

horsetail flower

                  But if you insist of placing any flower inside your room I recommend “horsetail” flower in SW corner of the bedroom/living room. This is an excellent remedy if you have no boyfriend/girlfriend.  Another good luck sign is the  “Forget me not flower”. Just make sure you place them in the SW area to enhance your love.

Rank 4 - FOLLOW THE COLOR SCHEME – You remember our topic in Rank 8?  Following the correct color scheme will help you in finding the right partner.   Warm colors, like red and green, are generally inviting love.   Soft colors are best if you are looking for a gentle partner. 

                        for guys :   if you badly want a love life use a green boxer shorts/socks.

                         for girls :  if you badly want a love life use a red underwear

Rank 3 – TELEVISION.   So TV lovers, you better read this!  In Feng Shui, TV is not allowed in the bedroom.  The radiation causes a fluctuation in chi.  But if you have no choice, make sure that the TV is not too close in your bed. You may opt to cover the TV if not in use with a white or red cloth.

Rank 2  -   WATER.        I am sure most of your bedroom have a touch of water design. This may be a figurine filled with water,  a beach painting, a photo on the beach….  any water features or symbols.  Any form of water in the room causes financial crisis.  So if you have been experiencing money problems lately, check if your room is filled with water signs.  You may just opt to remove them and see what happens.

                   

  

 Fish tank is also a no-no in the bedroom.  And never place any water featured object (e.g. flower vase with water).  to the right area near the door nor adjacent to the door. The chi is absorbed by the water instead of flowing towards the room.  IF you have no choice, just make sure that the water is not placed in the SW for financial problems will surely loom into your life. And this is just one of the major problems of divorce these days.

 

Rank 1 -  Southwest.    So what’s with the southwest direction? Why is it very important with Feng Shui?  Southwest is the universal area for love. So try improving this area of your room.  you may use various ways:

lampshade ( red/yellow glow)

candles (schematic color)

crystals (oval shape is good)

So I hope these tips will be helpful to you and your partner (to be!)

good luck!!!!

                      

WHeN DaRKNeSS CoMeS…………………

Nicole (left side)  and friend, Gem (right side)

(Nicole Juson, 12 yrs. old,   soccer player – jersey #5,   born : March 28, 1996     died : November 16  2007 )

Occasionally, we are graced with the presence of an earth bound Angel.They are unable to stay with us for long, but while they do, they bring unprecedented joy and happiness to all they touch. While they are here, we bask in their goodness and marvel at their contribution to the world. When they leave, we are left with the devastation that comes with losing such a wonderful being, but we must remember the earth bound Angels are not ours to keep.They are ours to enjoy, learn from, and behold until they return home.

      Never in my whole life did I imagine myself looking at the mirror and say….hey, take it easy.

         I have never gotten over this rotten feeling of anguish and pain when one of my precious soccer player died becuase of kidney failure leading to cardiac arrest….

            two weeks earlier…………………..

          We did a couple of practices in preparation for the De La Salle Little Olympics qhich was held last October 26 – 30, 2007 at the De La Salle Greenhills.

          This was the first time these young girls (age 10 -13), who will have a chance to sleep together in a common room for four nights. This was something different altogether to them.

         This girl, Nicole, loved soccer so much that it pained me a lot to think that she can no longer train with us or even see us practice for that matter.   She was not even given the single chance to say good bye to us….  everything was just too quick to be true…

         Everyone is so excited and anxious and then in a blink of an eye we are already faing our huge room ( I mean huge with its own salon!).   WEll, I almost felt like their eldest sister nontheless mother(UGH!) — we ate as a group, take turns in taking a bath and had chit-chat at times. I mean it was something those girls will never forget for quite sometime.

         What ’s more precious to me was not durin the game time but before and after that. It was during our wee hours together in the evening that things get a little bit crzy (funny crazy)!   We did suspense stories and jokes of course….

           zooming in to one person…..

           And there was Nicole with jersey number 5.          

           Modesty aside,  she was thesweetest girl in my team.  I mean, every time she sees me, she would Just embrace me and hung herself around my waistline and often than not she would kiss me on my cheek and hug me here and there… and if I am not that serious, she jsut tickles me nonstop!

           As a player, she was the best! The the tricks and skills par above her young age of 12.    What I admire about Nicole is her determination to compete.   She was the type of player who never misses a single practice, rain or shine.

          I will often see her dribbling or joggling before the actual training. What’s even more amazing is her huge heart and down-to-earth character….

         How can death cheat on that lovable, sweet and wonderful girl?   HOw can this happen to a 12-year old girl who has a lot of  future in her hands?

        The team was just so devastated of what happened to her and everyone just can’t believe that everything that she worked for and struggled for came to nothing… but all that we are consoled of right now is the belief that she still loved us so much as we do loved her back and she is already an angel in heaven, watching and praying…..

         and here I have chosen a simple yet profound poem and message which I used during a testimonial speech after the mass.  ( This is the best I can do…)                   

Good-bye At Last (Barbie Dy)

Saying goodbye is never easy
It’s the hardest thing to do
But what hurts even more
Is not the chance to say it to you.

Yesterday is just a memory
Our laughter was sunny and bright
Then clouds started to gather
For you were no where in sight.

You were my warmth in the morning
And this I will never forget
How you left without a warning
No good-byes, my only regret.

No matter what my wrongs
You offered only love
Until the day you left us
For your new home up above.

I know you still are with me
Your love is within my heart
Though life is no longer present
Our souls will never part.

This is given to you in honor
Of all that we did share
I just wanted you to know, Nicole,
How much I really did care.